Pet Sitting Red Flags: What to Watch For (and What to Do Instead)

BySitSignal

Most pet sitting bookings go smoothly — especially when expectations are clear. But when problems happen, there are usually warning signs beforehand.

This guide covers common red flags for pet parents and sitters, plus what to do instead so you can book confidently.

Red Flags for Pet Parents

1) The sitter tries to move payment off-platform immediately

If someone pushes for cash, Venmo, or “pay me directly” before you’ve even confirmed details, you lose key protections: documented booking terms, enforceable policies, and platform support.

Do this instead: Keep booking, payments, and changes in-app.

2) Vague answers about updates and communication

A good sitter can clearly explain how often they’ll check in (per visit, daily, or at specific times). If they can’t describe their routine, you may not get the visibility you need.

Do this instead: Confirm update frequency before booking.

3) The sitter avoids a meet & greet for longer bookings

For house sitting or boarding, a meet & greet is the simplest way to reduce surprises. Refusing one without a good reason can be a warning sign.

Do this instead: Request a meet & greet and use it to confirm routines and expectations.

4) Incomplete profile or unclear experience

A brand-new sitter isn’t automatically a problem, but a profile with no detail, no service clarity, and no safety plan should be treated cautiously.

Do this instead: Look for detailed profiles, clear policies, and professional communication.

5) Pressure tactics or rushing you into a booking

“Book now or I’ll be unavailable” is sometimes true — but pressure paired with vague details is a red flag.

Do this instead: Take 10 minutes to confirm pricing, expectations, and cancellation policy.

Red Flags for Sitters

1) The client downplays aggressive or anxious behavior

“He’s never done that before” may be true — or it may be a pattern. If behavior sounds serious or safety-related, take it seriously.

Do this instead: Ask direct questions and require a meet & greet for higher-risk bookings.

2) The client changes instructions frequently or last-minute

Consistent care instructions matter. Constant changes can create confusion and increase risk.

Do this instead: Confirm a final written routine before the booking begins.

3) Expectations don’t match the service type

Example: a drop-in request that includes “stay for hours,” or house sitting with unclear overnight expectations.

Do this instead: Clarify time expectations, what’s included, and boundaries before accepting.

4) Requests to go off-platform

Off-platform bookings reduce protections and create payment risk. They also remove clear policy enforcement and support.

Do this instead: Keep payment and booking details inside the platform.

5) The home situation feels unsafe or unclear

Poor lighting, unknown roommates, unsafe neighborhood instructions, or undisclosed cameras can be a problem.

Do this instead: Ask about cameras, access logistics, and safety expectations at the meet & greet.

Meet & Greet Checklist (Quick Version)

  • Confirm feeding schedule, walks, and medications
  • Ask about triggers (doorbell, other dogs, strangers)
  • Confirm emergency contacts and vet information
  • Clarify exact arrival/departure times
  • Agree on update frequency
  • Confirm keys/entry and where supplies are located

When It’s Okay to Say No

It’s better to decline early than accept a booking that feels unsafe or unclear. You are allowed to protect your household (pet parents) or your safety and time (sitters).

Final Thoughts

The best bookings come from clear expectations, professional communication, and keeping everything documented. If something feels off, ask questions — and don’t be afraid to move on to a better fit.

FAQ

Is a new sitter automatically a red flag?

Not necessarily. Everyone starts somewhere. Look for professionalism: detail, clear communication, and willingness to do a meet & greet.

Should I always do a meet & greet?

For house sitting and boarding, it’s strongly recommended. For short drop-ins, it can still be helpful, especially for first-time bookings.

What should I do if something changes mid-booking?

Keep communication in-app and document any changes. If you need help, contact platform support as soon as possible.